If oral sex is a favourite of your partner then why not surprise him with some unexpected new techniques that will leave him wanting more. Read our 5 top tips and give him the blowjob of his dreams!
1. Take control
There is something about being dominated that men find a huge turn on, especially when it comes to oral sex. Why not catch your man off-guard and seduce him the moment he walks in the door from work. You don't even have to make it past the hallway; start by kissing his lips and then move your lips down his body until you reach his trousers and then slowly remove them whilst he is still standing. Oral sex whilst standing can be thrilling and your partner is bound to go wild at the element of surprise and you being in control.
There is something about being dominated that men find a huge turn on, especially when it comes to oral sex.
2. Use a lube
Dryness during sex can be uncomfortable for both partners and the same is true during oral sex. Although saliva acts as a natural lubricant, it also dries up very quickly and often after a short period of time the mouth can become dry and chalky. Introducing a lube can help solve this and makes the experience more pleasurable for the giver as well as the receiver. There are many flavoured lubricants available, so you can experiment and find a taste that works for you.
3. Explore with your hands
If your partner's penis is on the large side you may find it difficult to use just your mouth alone during oral sex. Using your hand and your mouth simultaneously can be a useful technique, allowing you to give him pleasure down the full length of his shaft. Using a lubricant can also be great for this purpose as it will allow your hand to slide effortlessly up and down the lower end of his penis, whilst you concentrate your lips around the top part. You can also use your second hand to explore other parts of your man's body, gently caressing his scrotum, squeezing his bottom to draw him closer to you or stroking a finger around his anus to heighten the sensitivity.
4. Experiment with temperatures and textures
Blowjobs and oral sex should be playful so if you want to add some fun try introducing some props for added excitement and stimulation. Experimenting with different temperatures and sensations can be enjoyable, so try taking a mouthful of warm hot chocolate, swirling it around your mouth and then continue with oral sex allowing the liquid to circulate around your man's penis.
Follow this immediately with an ice cube, using your tongue to push the cold object around the penis and then from the base to the tip. The difference in temperature from warm to cold will feel amazing for your partner. You can also try out fizzy champagne, ice cream, popping candy or smooth melted chocolate for some other sexy sensations.
5. Show him you are enjoying yourself
One thing that should really heighten the oral-sex-adventure for your partner is showing him that you are getting really turned on by the whole experience. Many people think of oral sex as being a one-sided act, but show your man just how much you are enjoying yourself with your body language and sounds you make.
Try soft moaning whilst you take him into your mouth or stop occasionally for a sexy gasp and to tell him how amazing his penis is. Turn him on even more by using your hands to explore your own body, whilst pleasuring him with your mouth. You could even use an intimate massager to stimulate yourself at the same time, resulting in a mutual climax moment.